A "friend" of mine that I've know since 10th grade has a picture online with her titty balls almost poppin out. People we know were commenting on said photo. Since I was in the pic, and to draw attention away from herself she comments on me. So since I'm a fool I say that she looks like she's about to say trimspa baby (a reference to Anna Nicole). As this was a joke, I think nothing of it that's until the next day I log on and she has removed me from her friends. So I write and ask why I can't see her profile and she responds with this:
Your comment about Anna Nicole Smith was not only disrepectful to me and way over board, but it was also disrespectful to a deceased woman. And because I knew it would be a waste of my energy trying to explain that to you, I nipped it in the bud. No hard feelings, but I can't call someone "friend" who lacks tact and the ability to be respectful to me. My mother always told me to never try to make someone else look like an ass, because you end up making yourself look like a bigger ass.
WTF? So at first I got pissed and wrote her a letter all about her hypocritical self, then I stopped and realized that to do so would be dropping down to her level so I wrote back this:
Wow, originally I wrote you back an equally loaded letter, and then I remembered I'm an adult. As an adult, I can respect the fact that our ideas of jokes are not similar. As an adult I can also respect the fact that you have chosen to not speak of me as a friend anymore. However, I do not accept you calling me disrespectful and tactless; those are not names you get to use, especially since you have called me, as a woman, out of my name numerous times on this very facet. As a person who used the word "friend" perhaps as a "friend" you should have bought your anger to me instead of around me. "Unfriending" me on facebook and myspace was, as you put it, way over board. As this event has spun completely out of control and I do not wish to engage in high school behavior I will leave it at that. As with you, there are no hard feelings and even if we never speak again, I wish you all good things and hope your future is truly blessed.
Do you see how nice that was? How I expressed my feelings in a womanly way? How I didnt call her a BITCH!? This is what she writes back:
You lack tact and respect for not being okay with opening your mouth. Instead, you chose yo do so in a comment meant to offend me. I have never called you out of your name. Get it straight. It is often human nature to look for some blame to counter, so I understand.
To ASSume that I even knew what you were talking about, joke or not, made and an ASS out of you not me.
Thank you.
Oh, and I'm not angry. I was just shocked that you could be so "ignorant" as you have highlighted on your facebook page--ha! Oh, and don't you fret... your email didn't go over my head, as you lied to someone who posted on your wall. In fact, you never sent me an email to address it; I brought it to you. That, is even funnier. By the way, you're not dealing with someone below you, as you tried to portray in your same comment. So, while you're pointing the finger to call someone ignorant, realize that you are being quite childish and lying to make yourself seem "cool?" Again, lacking tact and respect. I suggest stepping your game up.
WOWZA! For someone not angry it sure seems that way. I love how I wrote her a nice positive adult letter and I get the bitchy AIM response. WOW. At this point in time she pissed me off but the heffa blocked me on facebook, so me being vindictive, I wrote her on myspace.
How clever of you blocking me from messaging you on one outlet and still forgetting the other. I really dont feel like going into all of the conundrums you placed in your messages to me so I'll just start with the ones that are bugging me.
*If you're not angry, quit writing angry notes.
*I never said a comment meant to offend you, on the contrary the Anna Nicole comment was meant to tickle your funny bone, something I'm not going to explain again.
*You've never called me out of my name Autumn? Hmmm.... I believe we got in a little tift last year about you calling me out of my name and me jabbing back too hard in your opinion or perhaps its slipped your mind. I guess Hoe is a different way of saying Tiara.Its cool, you know, human nature. Oh wait, I know, you said it as a joke...which is completely different from what I said. Completely.
*If you're going to use the ASSume reference, please turn it around on yourself . To ASSume that I would know you would be upset or to ASSume that its o.k to call someone a hoe because you're playing really does make an Ass out of you and me.
*Whats the "HA" for, should I be amazed you used someone elses profile to view mine? I KNEW you would. I did send you a message asking why you unfriended me because you chose to keep it a secret. The email you sent was in response to mine, you know, cause and effect?
* When did I say you were below me? Please keep your issues, your issues and not mine. If I thought you were below me I wouldnt have asked why. If I thought you were below me I wouldnt have written you back and if I thought you were below me I would have put stupid instead of ignorant.
*Lying? Again with the name calling! I dont have to lie to make myself seem cooler than a person she has never met. I guess that reading my profile on the low to check for information about yourself seems much cooler, yeah we should all get like you.
I really dont care to discuss this matter any further, I've already taken it past its breaking point writing this letter so you do with it whatever you will.
So as I have already stated I have done, she does what every rational stupid person does and WRITES.ME.BACK!
Tiara Smith, get over yourself and stop talking to me. Obviously this is very important to you, and is bothering you. I never questioned the esteem of myself... you know SELF ESTEEM?! I questioned... yours! Because like I earlier referenced, the need to "crack back" "jabb back" whatever you call it was taught to me as an expression of self doubt, not a reflection of the person it's projected on.
I stopped talking to you on thefacebook because it was not productive. I also evaluated the importance of our "friendship". And sadly enough it added up to be something of little importance to my life. So, I deleted it.
Case closed.
"hoe sit down" is a colloquial phrase... if it offended you last year, I apologized. You forgave, yet you bring it back up(?) The comment on your picture wasn't directed at you; but since you were offended-- I deleted it (there goes that respect and tact shining once again! eureka!).
Please, explain how telling me I was a fat, WHITE woman with large fake breasts [mine are the blessing of my Father; a representation of my HERITAGE] supposed to amuse me... not to mention, she is deceased. I didn't know the woman personally; but, I don't take human life lightly. Again, explain. No, nevermind, because it will take you back to making an ass of yourself.
Again, I rest.
Oh, and for your information, you don't know me. And I saw your page because you messaged me--I clicked the wrong part and landed on your face! Not because I got into someone else's profile. Loser. Not I. Upgrade yourself. Your keyboard courage amuses me.
Resting, finally.
Wow, keyboard courage, more name calling huh? Had you of answered the phone when I called, you could have heard my phone courage as well.I will say this for the last time.J-O-K-E. If you didnt like it fine. I dont care but dont accuse me of something that is not true. Seeing as before this year we hadn't spoke in over 3 1/2 years I'm not surprised you didnt find our "friendship" worthwhile. WOMP,WOMP. Big breasts a black woman do not make. I dont care about your boobs and I'm tired of talking about them. Deleting a comment off of my picture after the fact, does not make it tact. It makes it risk management. I dont know you? How about that after you block someone, if you click on their face, it doesnt go to their page. It goes to your homepage, because you're BLOCKED! Please, dont test me.
You know what Autumn, for the sake of the argument, let's say you're right. Ring the bells sound the alarms! Hooray all's right in hooville! Since you are right, there should be no need for you to ever talk to me again. Just go be right with yourself.
Yeah. Can you believe ^this^ shit? Had me arguing like a five year old! Anywayz we dont talk anymore and as this big breasted individual had my old blog address, I changed it and made it private. I'll move the stuff over here sometime in the near (or distant) future.
Oh, and Autumn R.W.....
GO TO CHURCH!!!!
